Good Eggs on the Pilgrimage to a Happy Life

11/15/2014,  It is said that those who like children, the elderly, and animals are okay people.  Also, the comment that someone is a good egg, cool, or really knowledgeable all are examples of judging a person’s characteristic.   Another old saying, “We are known by the company we keep”.   Who do you keep close to you […]

Losing My Life to Build a Life, the last part of How my Journey Started

09/24/2014,  Events can put us in situations, but then there is an internal event that takes place within us.  Previously, I have detailed how losing my father when he died and how losing my marriage was losing my life.   These two events did put me in the situation of living alone and all that comes […]

Losing My Life, How My Journey Started -Part 2

9/20/2014,  There were 3 events in which I lost my life that started my Pilgrimage to a Happy Life.  Part 1 details how in losing my father, I lost my life.   In this article, Part 2 – I will discuss how I lost my life in the realm of abuse.  This 3 part series is […]

Losing my Life, How my Journey Started – Part 1

09/17/2014,  My pilgrimage to trying to build and find my happy resulted from a series of losses.  Losses either devastate or motivate us.   The very word, Loss, conveys something we miss and will never get back.  In the past year, the losses I have experienced have both devastated and motivated me to keep going, to keep […]

Overload Alert,When the Road to a Happy Life is Littered with Information

09/15/2014,  There are times when we are overloaded with information so much that we brood, become indecisive, and emotional.   In today’s electronic age, any topic can be researched, studied, and thought upon.  However, the value of the information can range from totally not true to absolutely right on.  We google topics to help direct our […]

Overcoming the Roadblock of Fear on Life’s Highway

09/13/2014,  Fear can immobilize and destroy self-esteem.  Fear can cause stress, depression, and self-doubt.  We are all on this journey we call life, and at one time or another we all fear something.   Abusers, health concerns, job losses, financial fears, and even fear of the unknown or future can all be roadblocks on life’s highway.   […]

Is There a Yellow Brick Road to Safety & Happiness?

09/10/2014,  In the Wizard of Oz, Dorothy & her little dog Toto run away from home & then return only to get sucked up into a twister and wind up in the land of Oz.  She has to follow the yellow brick road to the Wizard who she believes will get her back home.  Along the […]

Heart Work, A Necessity to Moving Beyond the Pain

09/07/2014,  What does it mean to Let Go and move forward? What is it that it being let go when ending a relationship?  Letting go is really about getting rid of the anchor around your heart & coming to terms that the relationship is really over.   The moving forward is simply….living life…creating a new life and […]

09/09/2014, Some people are paranoid thinking that everyone is out to get them. Then, there are those who think that everyone is out to get them and they are correct.  The latter is especially true of anyone escaping abuse, and I will tell you why.  Abusers isolate their victims from family, friends (male or female), doctors, and […]

The Twisty Road of Life

09/04/2014,  Life’s road is full of twists and turns.  It is seldom straight.   The curves can be gentle and slight, or the curves can be hard and angled sharply.  However, life is a road of sorts. There is a beginning and and ending.  Life’s pilgrimage to a happy life, a live worth living, can be […]